I should have the confidence that the work I am doing with her will be enough for when she has her first kiss and her first wins. And whatever else life brings.
I know somehow, I will suffer for all I did to my mum: I don’t call as often as I should etc. Femi will do the same. She will call when she wants to. If we quarrel, I would apologize quickly, so she does not write me off.
Perhaps, thinking about tomorrow, I can soften some of my hardline stance around bedtime etc.